Natural Beauty I

Beauty. How exactly do u determine beauty? There's no exact criteria to classify the group between beautiful and ugly, is there? Because everyone has his own point of view. Some judge something or someone from physical appearance while others judge through the innerside. Certain might think this or that is beautiful but not everyone shares the same idea. If so, massive destructive war will begin in every corner just because everyone wants to claim one same thing as his own. Of course, bias can also cause fights to spark out because the arrogant ego of proud people who believe that their contradictory thoughts are correct while the rest are wrong but that's a whole different story I'm talking here. So, I rather use the terms "U stare at something or someone because u Like What u See" instead of "Ahh... he/she/that thing is indeed good looking.

The reason for this difer concept of beauty to occur is also due to human is such a miracle being created by God. Each person is born unique with his/her own appearance, genes, traits, talents which half of them inherited from the parents. Even the twins who share the same appearance & DNA won't possess the same personalities. Therefore, everyone has his/her own likes and dislikes as well as preferences. As a result, individuals will attract to each other and usually the opposites will magnetize each other although I must say those with similarities sometimes also come together. Not all people can recognize or realize the same beauty of someone/something/somewhere as different angles keep the other parts hidden from our heart. So people who only see the bad sides will judge him/her as ugly while those who see the good sides will approve that him/her is the pretty one. But do remember that people consist of so many layers of mask to protect themselves from the outside world just as how u learn that people open up only to those they trust and lower their defending walls and being themselves in front of them. In other words, different individual has the ability to lure out different sides of another individual. Thus, u don't have the rights or in the position to judge people/something/somewhere at all. Through that, we can find out who's compatible with us and who's not. That's why I think sometimes your "closest" person to u could be your enemies rather than your alliance or a pair who always bickering with each other ends up become a couple because your enemy will analyze not only your weaknesses but also your strengths so they know about u and find the best way to tackle u.

It's the same applied to places. People who have connection with certain place will think it's so special because of the bitter or sweet memories they experienced previously right on the same spot but it might be an unworthy location for others. U merely care when the matter is related to u or it means nothing at all to u just like u acknowledge the surface sadness when your friends confide in u that they hurt so much but deep down u don't really fully understand the pain they feel in their heart unless u have the same experience before.

Personally, I think beauty born out of love. I'm not talking about the typical type of love which probably swimming in your head now. There are many kinds of love; Love between lovers for sure, love towards yourself, love between family members and friends, love for your job, love for your interests, love for success, love for school & teachers, love for the environment, love for your pet, love for God u believe in and so on the other love u could think about if there's any left out.