The host asked him if he ever have any regrets or unhappy experience and he answered "none". True happiness lies in your heart and not measured by materialistic elements. True happiness is when u feel content or satisfied and "Liberty". Freedom is not you're being locked up or tied with a rope around your body but you're free and have ABILITIES to do whatever u want. If you're happy with yourself, then there won't be any jealousy or enviousness because you're already satisfied with yourself. U feel happy with contentment when u know and sure what u are doing. A person without a dream or living without purpose is just like a butterfly without its pair of wings. Hmm... I ever wondered why we must born and live through world difficulties when at the end mortals just have to die? Why not just being unborn when we knew we will die at the end right? But because we are humans, we don't know what will happen in our future, isn't u kinda excited to find out what will u be or what's there awaiting for you in the world so we continue to live on? Some people afraid to die because they don't want to leave their wealthy assets and names behind. Some are afraid for their afterlife. Most importantly, some people also fear to suffer the separation with their loved ones. I wondered I'm merely an extremely tiny particle in this world, what can I do with my own very hands in this gigantic society? U believe in yourself thus win every challenges with confidence and work hard to achieve your dreams so u won't have any regrets. U could do when u dare to dream. Nothing is impossible when u try your best and keep the faith. "The most rebellious people can be is being themselves." He said people nowadays lack of boldness compared to people last time. A senior said it's a very huge issue when the youngsters nowadays replied "I don't know" when he asked them "What is your dream or ambition or things u want to do?". He then added "Do u know last time we just uttered happily whatever jobs came across our mind although we knew we might not able to become that person?". People nowadays become too afraid not dare to dream because we are too caught up with the environments. "Don't get tied down by your surrounded environment". Ancient people didn't even need money to survive but people nowadays just mourning when they don't have money. I understand the world is evolving fastly non-stop changing everyday but still "Don't become a narrow-minded person stuck in daily problems". I watched "Chit chat of Beautiful Ladies", a Korean TV talk show by ladies from around the globe and they did a survey "What are Korean elementary kids nowadays worry about?" OMG the responses sure make u O_o. Guess what's in their little heads. Those young childrens answered "The politicians always fighting each other, what will happen to Korea in the future?", "We are afraid wars will occur between North Korea & South Korea", "I must study hard now so I can enter great university in the future". Do u think it's healthy for such young students to have similar thoughts with adults? U might think "Wow, what an intelligent students!" but it's more healthy if people think and act according to their ages. In this world, everything as well as people need to compete with each other like animals and plants in order to survive, we may debate it just create tension and stress but if there's no competitions there won't be improvement. (What's in the world is this sentence got anything to do with this topic I also don't know hehe, I just type whatever running through my brain.) What the generations of 21st century need to develop is they gotta become creative and brave to invent something from none to exist. This reminds me of those famous honourable scientists and philosophers like Aristotle, Isaac Newton, Einstein etc etc. Hehe Micky's quote "I chose 0 because 0 means infinity like fashion begins from zero". No matter how big or small your dreams, only your heart knows its importance even others take lightly or look down on u so just follow your heart and u will feel blissful. Sometimes we wonder why a farmer can live happily with laughter everyday when he needs to soak under the scorching sun, it's because he's satisfied with his life. Don't degrade yourself or think you're unworthy because every person has his own specialities.
Happy people are people who know what is true happiness, I mean those who really experienced hardship and remember them always because people who are successful tend to forget their past which make them "who they are today" after they achieve success. But people who truly happy will always learn how to appreciate. Like I said in previous post, people are greedy, never satisfied with what we have. Look at ourselves, we're really lucky, we were born with a complete healthy body. We are really blessed. We have a pair of eyes to see the colors of the world. U will feel devastated when u ever lose your eyesight unable to see the beauty of your loved ones. We have a nice vocal cord attached to our lips that we can voice our heart out even scream for help when you're in danger or frustration. Do you know normal people could cry twice the times of mute people because the healthy one is helping the mute one to cry since the mute one is not able to cry as much? (not sure about its accuracy) What I mean here is not mute people won't cry but did u ever felt like your heart numb before? U feel very upset then u cry till u think that you're dried out your tears. U don't mention your sadness in front of people anymore because you feel like u have moved on. But then the moment u start to talk about your sadness again, the solid heart that hidden inside which u thought harden already open its wound again, the moistured clear liquid rolling down your cheeks unconciously once again. If you keep silence, your heart might keep bleeding without soul but if you voice it out, your heart become alive again. We have a pair of ears to listen to the beauty of music and the voices of your loved ones. We have a pair of hands so we can touch people and reach things. We have a pair of legs that we can walk and run freely to where ever we want to go. We are middle class people that we have place to live, food to eat, water to drink, education to study, not really undergo difficulties in life. But people won't realize these blessings until they lose them and some even misuse them. Normal healthy people will begin to complain their unfortunates when they lost a part of their body and blame others but have u ever think how those born handicapped, mute, deaf or blind ever feel like that they didn't even have the chance to have a taste of what we have? Lucky people simply throw away unfinished food. Think about undernourished children and adults in Africa before u leave behind your unwanted food. We live in tropical country where rain and water always available so water just being wasted or treated like a useless trash in every seconds but do you know water is like gold oasis in drought desert middle east countries such as Egypt? Yet we still desire for other things. "People need to spend more to earn more." Haha when u have lovely family, u wish to score flying colours in exams, then u hope for being popular among friends, not enough u then climb to the top ladder in your career, u have all the neccesities in your life like house shelter, clothes and money, later on u crave for love from others having relationship, bragging about your rich partners and the list just goes on bla bla bla. If your wild heart never stop reaching higher and higher, u won't feel happy even u have already achieve everything which seems like a successful life in others' eyes. "Simple minded people is more happy and live longer than those who always worry about unnecessary stuffs." "Ignorance is blissful." (This can be a good as well as bad phrase depends on circumstances.) Hmm... whatever, frankly speaking, people is pursuing spiritual happiness instead of materials where u create an equal balance between your dream interests and love relationships plus life neccessities.
He also said that a hunter can't catch two rabbits in the same time or else he sure will fail to catch any at the end. "End whatever u have started". Future is unpredictable so might as well just focus all your attention on one thing till u finish. If u don't take a relationship seriously or decided to two-timing your partner, u will not only hurt yourself but also your partners. If you do your job without putting your 100% effort, u won't able to produce excellent result make you perform poorly in your work. Take Japan ethnics for instance, the "specialization in every working departments" to ensure employers work effectively and increase the productions. "People choose to study in a field not to obtain the certificate but hope to sharpen their skills and potentials to become a better talent in one particular area."
People who suffer the most like living in hell are people who can't find themselves, can't determine discreetly about their likes and dislikes, indesicive all the time. Therefore wasting lots of time and regrets after losing what they're suppose to gain. So it is really fortunate for those who know and clear what they want to do no matter how light or heavy your dreams are, some realize it since young, some discover it during the middle of "growing up" and some are just so sad never really realize it and just live on their lives in bluriness till they die. Struggling in weighing which one will be my route of happiness, I wish I'll be released from this pain and know what I want to be. I'm so upset that I myself don't even understand myself, "My dear heart, please don't turn away from me." Yosh Fighting!!!
"Creatures are not born with desires unless satisfaction for those desires exists. A baby feels hunger; well there is such a thing as food; a duckling wants to swim; well there is such a thing as water, etc. If I find myself a desire which no experience in this world can satisfy, the most probable explanation is that I was made for another world."
— C.S. Lewis
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